These worksheets are designed to help you organize your thoughts, compare your options, and clarify what matters most to you. Fill them in with your doctor, a family member, or on your own. There are no right or wrong answers — only what is right for you.
Worksheet C.1 — Side-by-Side Treatment Comparison
Use this chart to compare up to four treatment options. Ask your doctor to help you fill in the details.
| Option 1: ______ | Option 2: ___ | Option 3: ___ | Option 4: ______ |
|---|---|---|---|
After filling this in, which option(s) feel most right for me?
Worksheet C.2 — "What Matters Most to Me" Values Clarification
Everyone has different priorities. Rank the following from 1 (most important to me) to 12 (least important to me). There are no wrong answers.
| Priority | My Ranking (1–12) |
|---|---|
| Highest chance of curing the cancer | |
| Preserving sexual function (erections) | |
| Preserving urinary control (no leakage) | |
| Avoiding bowel side effects | |
| Shortest treatment time | |
| Fastest recovery / return to normal life | |
| Avoiding surgery / general anesthesia | |
| Avoiding radiation | |
| Avoiding hormone therapy and its side effects | |
| Minimizing number of hospital/clinic visits | |
| Keeping treatment costs low | |
| Having the newest / most advanced technology |
My top 3 priorities are:
- _____________________________________________
- _____________________________________________
- _____________________________________________
Based on these priorities, the treatment that best aligns with my values is:
Worksheet C.3 — Pros and Cons Worksheet
Use this blank template to weigh any two options you are considering.
Option A: _____________________________________________
| Pros | Cons |
|---|---|
Option B: _____________________________________________
| Pros | Cons |
|---|---|
After weighing both sides, I am leaning toward:
Questions I still need answered before deciding:
- _____________________________________________
- _____________________________________________
- _____________________________________________
Worksheet C.4 — Second Opinion Checklist
Getting a second opinion is your right and is encouraged by most doctors. Use this checklist to prepare.
Before the appointment:
- Request copies of all medical records from your current doctor
- Obtain pathology slides (or request they be sent directly)
- Obtain imaging on CD/USB or have them sent electronically
- Gather all lab results (PSA history, bloodwork)
- Obtain copies of any genomic test results (Decipher, Oncotype, Prolaris, etc.)
- Write down your diagnosis, stage, and risk group
- Prepare a list of your current medications
- Prepare a list of your questions (use Appendix B)
- Check if your insurance covers the second opinion
- Bring a family member or friend to take notes
At the appointment:
- Ask: Do you agree with my diagnosis and risk group?
- Ask: Would you recommend the same treatment?
- Ask: Are there options my first doctor did not mention?
- Ask: Are there clinical trials I should consider?
- Ask: What would you recommend for your own family member?
- Take notes or ask permission to record the conversation
After the appointment:
- Compare recommendations from both doctors
- If opinions differ, ask each doctor to explain why
- Consider a third opinion if still uncertain
- Make your decision when you feel informed and ready — not rushed
Worksheet C.5 — Active Surveillance Decision Worksheet
If active surveillance has been recommended, use this worksheet to organize your monitoring plan and track your comfort level over time.
My cancer details:
- Gleason score / Grade Group: _____________
- PSA at diagnosis: _____________
- Number of positive cores: ___ / Total cores: ___
- Maximum cancer in any core: ______%
- MRI findings (PI-RADS): _____________
- Genomic test result (if done): _____________
- Risk group: _____________
My monitoring schedule:
| Test | How Often | Next Due Date |
|---|---|---|
| PSA blood test | Every ___ months | __________ |
| Digital rectal exam (DRE) | Every ___ months | __________ |
| MRI | Every ___ months | __________ |
| Repeat biopsy | Every ___ months | __________ |
| Genomic testing | _______________ | __________ |
How I am feeling about active surveillance:
| Date | Comfort Level (1–10) | Notes / Concerns |
|---|---|---|
Triggers that would make me consider treatment:
- Grade Group upgrade on repeat biopsy
- Significant PSA rise
- New finding on MRI
- Anxiety that is affecting my quality of life
- Other: _____________________________________________
Worksheet C.6 — Quality of Life Considerations
Before and after treatment, rate each area on a scale of 0 (no problem) to 10 (severe problem). This helps you and your doctor track changes over time.
| Area | Before Treatment | 3 Months After | 6 Months After | 12 Months After |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Urinary leakage | ||||
| Urinary urgency/frequency | ||||
| Urinary pain/burning | ||||
| Erections sufficient for intercourse | ||||
| Sexual desire (libido) | ||||
| Bowel urgency | ||||
| Rectal bleeding | ||||
| Fatigue | ||||
| Hot flashes | ||||
| Pain | ||||
| Anxiety about cancer | ||||
| Overall quality of life |